'One day we had video sex, the next my girlfriend ghosted me' - Tuesday's problems answered

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Manage your email preferences here Having trouble viewing this email? Click here Morning, This Tuesday we hear from a man who fears he has been scammed after sending a substantial amount of money to a woman who said she was in the Philippines and wanted to meet him in Thailand for a holiday.  Not only does he feel hurt but he's struggling with feeling humiliated.  In a separate letter we hear from a woman who worries her handsome boyfriend is using her for somewhere to live.  She was bowled over by his looks and let him stay with her but now she feels like she is being taken advantage of. For more mental health, dating and relationship advice email my team of counsellors.  It's completely free. Sally Land  The Sun's Agony Aunt DEAR DEIDRE One day we had video sex, the next my girlfriend ghosted me My boyfriend is so hot but brings nothing else to the party CASE STUDY My partner has destroyed my self-esteem I love my fiancee but she doesn't turn me on NEED SOME ADVICE? Get confidential help GET MORE FROM THE SUN The Sun newsletter TV newsletter Horoscopes newsletter Money newsletter OR WHY NOT TRY... More from Dear Deidre  FOLLOW DEAR DEIDRE FOR MORE Click here to unsubscribe or update your preferences. To see our privacy policy, click here. © News Group Newspapers Limited in England No. 679215 Registered office: 1 London Bridge Street, London, SE1 9GF. "The Sun", "Sun", "Sun Online" are registered trademarks or trade names of News Group Newspapers Limited. This service is provided on News Group Newspapers' Limited's Standard Terms and Conditions in accordance with our Privacy & Cookie Policy. To inquire about a licence to reproduce material, visit our Syndication site. View our online Press Pack. For other inquiries, Contact Us. To see all content on The Sun, please use the Site Map. The Sun website is regulated by the Independent Press Standards Organisation (IPSO)  Our journalists strive for accuracy but on occasion we make mistakes. For further details of our complaints policy and to make a complaint please click here.