'I have been having great sex with my friend's mum' - Monday's problems answered

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Manage your email preferences here Having trouble viewing this email? Click here Morning, Today's main lead comes from a man who started a fling with one of his friend's married mums. Now that she wants to set up home properly with him and leave her husband he's got cold feet. He doesn't see his future with her but also doesn't want to hurt her. He asks how he can get out of this messy situation. My second letter today comes from a grandmother who is worried about her grandson. The 13-year-old refuses to go into school and seems angry and depressed. Now her daughter is thinking about homeschooling him but our reader is worried about her finances as she'll need to give up work. If something is worrying you, you can email me and my team of counsellors. We'll get back to you within one working day and it's completely free.  Sally Land  The Sun's Agony Aunt DEAR DEIDRE I have been having great sex with my friend's mum - now she wants to get a divorce and run away with me HE'S MISERABLE I am really worried for my grandson - he has been off school for months CASE STUDY FED UP My wife is not interested in having sex, I have tried everything to change her mind TOTAL GRIEF My husband's sudden death during routine operation has completely devastated me NEED SOME ADVICE? Get confidential help GET MORE FROM THE SUN The Sun newsletter TV newsletter Horoscopes newsletter Money newsletter OR WHY NOT TRY... More from Dear Deidre  FOLLOW DEAR DEIDRE FOR MORE Click here to unsubscribe or update your preferences. To see our privacy policy, click here. © News Group Newspapers Limited in England No. 679215 Registered office: 1 London Bridge Street, London, SE1 9GF. "The Sun", "Sun", "Sun Online" are registered trademarks or trade names of News Group Newspapers Limited. This service is provided on News Group Newspapers' Limited's Standard Terms and Conditions in accordance with our Privacy & Cookie Policy. To inquire about a licence to reproduce material, visit our Syndication site. View our online Press Pack. For other inquiries, Contact Us. To see all content on The Sun, please use the Site Map. The Sun website is regulated by the Independent Press Standards Organisation (IPSO)  Our journalists strive for accuracy but on occasion we make mistakes. For further details of our complaints policy and to make a complaint please click here.