'I caught husband cheating with work colleague' - Monday's problems answered

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Manage your email preferences here Having trouble viewing this email? Click here Morning, Today's main letter comes from a woman who has recently discovered her husband was having an affair with a woman half her age. As soon as she confronted him, he finished it, saying 'it was just sex' but she is struggling to recover. A different reader writes in for advice on finances and communication. Both he and his wife work but as he is the main breadwinner she expects him to pick up all the bills and family overheads. At the same time she spends her money on beauty procedures and plans expensive holidays. As a result he is constantly stressed about finances.  If you'd like to get something off your chest. Get in touch with my counsellors who read and respond to every single email. Sally Land  The Sun's Agony Aunt DEAR DEIDRE I caught husband cheating with work colleague and I am struggling to forgive him ON THE EDGE My wife is living beyond our means and spending money we don't have CASE STUDY HAD ENOUGH I cannot tolerate socialising with my wife's sexist and rude friend BREAKING POINT My husband punched me when he was drunk and I threw him out of the house NEED SOME ADVICE? Get confidential help GET MORE FROM THE SUN The Sun newsletter TV newsletter Horoscopes newsletter Money newsletter OR WHY NOT TRY... More from Dear Deidre  FOLLOW DEAR DEIDRE FOR MORE Click here to unsubscribe or update your preferences. To see our privacy policy, click here. © News Group Newspapers Limited in England No. 679215 Registered office: 1 London Bridge Street, London, SE1 9GF. "The Sun", "Sun", "Sun Online" are registered trademarks or trade names of News Group Newspapers Limited. This service is provided on News Group Newspapers' Limited's Standard Terms and Conditions in accordance with our Privacy & Cookie Policy. To inquire about a licence to reproduce material, visit our Syndication site. View our online Press Pack. For other inquiries, Contact Us. To see all content on The Sun, please use the Site Map. The Sun website is regulated by the Independent Press Standards Organisation (IPSO)  Our journalists strive for accuracy but on occasion we make mistakes. For further details of our complaints policy and to make a complaint please click here.