'I fear a threesome has ruined my relationship' - Monday's problems answered

We have all the advice you need to solve your relationship, personal or health issues.

Manage your email preferences here Having trouble viewing this email? Click here Morning, Today's main letter comes from a man who was delighted when his girlfriend agreed to have a threesome with another woman. But the reality of opening up their relationship was that he felt intensely jealous and left out when his girlfriend and this other woman became intimate. He asks how to get their sex life and relationship back on track. Our second letter comes from another married man who is only just managing to resist meeting up with another man. He says he loves his wife but is sex starved. As he has always been attracted to older men he is incredibly tempted to meet up with another man to satisfy his sexual curiosity. To read more dilemmas and my advice, have a look at the full Dear Deidre column. Sally Land  The Sun's Agony Aunt DEAR DEIDRE Having a threesome was my biggest fantasy - but I fear it's ruined my relationship RERESSED FEELINGS I've been married to wife for 30 years but I want to have sex with men CASE STUDY NO INTIMACY My wife only wants sex if we're planning on making a baby - I've become so frustrated LUST CAUSE I can't seem to meet a decent man - all my relationships have failed NEED SOME ADVICE? Get confidential help GET MORE FROM THE SUN The Sun newsletter TV newsletter Horoscopes newsletter Money newsletter OR WHY NOT TRY... More from Dear Deidre  FOLLOW DEAR DEIDRE FOR MORE Click here to unsubscribe or update your preferences. To see our privacy policy, click here. © News Group Newspapers Limited in England No. 679215 Registered office: 1 London Bridge Street, London, SE1 9GF. "The Sun", "Sun", "Sun Online" are registered trademarks or trade names of News Group Newspapers Limited. This service is provided on News Group Newspapers' Limited's Standard Terms and Conditions in accordance with our Privacy & Cookie Policy. To inquire about a licence to reproduce material, visit our Syndication site. View our online Press Pack. For other inquiries, Contact Us. To see all content on The Sun, please use the Site Map. The Sun website is regulated by the Independent Press Standards Organisation (IPSO)  Our journalists strive for accuracy but on occasion we make mistakes. For further details of our complaints policy and to make a complaint please click here.