'I can't move on until I've unleashed my anger at my husband's mistress' - Sunday's problems answered

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Manage your email preferences here Having trouble viewing this email? Click here Morning, This Sunday's main letter comes from a woman who feels she can't move on from her husband's affairs until she's let his French mistress know just how angry she is with her. But this woman refuses to engage with my reader. She asks how she can move on until she has had the satisfaction of venting her fury. My second letter comes from a man who 30 years after leaving his wife and children, is desperate to rekindle his relationship with his offspring. They want nothing to do with him despite his explanation that their mother turned him away causing his depression. He asks how he can encourage them to forgive him. If something is worrying you, you can email me and my team of counsellors. We'll get back to you within one working day and it's completely free.  Sally Land  The Sun's Agony Aunt DEAR DEIDRE I can't move on until I've unleashed my anger at my husband's mistress - what should I do? I'm desperate to show my children how much I love them after walking out on them 30 years ago CASE STUDY SEX STRESS I'm considering hiring an escort to satisfy me as my wife is too boring in bed I'd like to wear nylon stockings in sex sessions with my wife but she acts like I'm a pervert NEED SOME ADVICE? Get confidential help GET MORE FROM THE SUN The Sun newsletter TV newsletter Horoscopes newsletter Money newsletter OR WHY NOT TRY... More from Dear Deidre  FOLLOW DEAR DEIDRE FOR MORE Click here to unsubscribe or update your preferences. To see our privacy policy, click here. © News Group Newspapers Limited in England No. 679215 Registered office: 1 London Bridge Street, London, SE1 9GF. "The Sun", "Sun", "Sun Online" are registered trademarks or trade names of News Group Newspapers Limited. This service is provided on News Group Newspapers' Limited's Standard Terms and Conditions in accordance with our Privacy & Cookie Policy. To inquire about a licence to reproduce material, visit our Syndication site. View our online Press Pack. For other inquiries, Contact Us. To see all content on The Sun, please use the Site Map. The Sun website is regulated by the Independent Press Standards Organisation (IPSO)  Our journalists strive for accuracy but on occasion we make mistakes. For further details of our complaints policy and to make a complaint please click here.